Oh my lord, I had a dream a couple nights ago of my friend asking a similar question. Dream ends up with him trying to fix me with a big black woman who I find out is a hooker. Smh. ANYWAYS, BACK TO THE QUESTION. if she can deal with my fixation with rollerblading, anime, hermitting, and video games, she already sounds like a keeper.  Appearance-wise I don’t really know. I never thought about it. Short hair? Toned legs? (Toned legs = Toned ass. Win, win. Lol.) Hits the gym once and awhile. Maintains her body/health/mind. Ambitious in her interests. Ambitious to learn but knows when to pull on the breaks. Yada-yada. Got lazy to write anymore.